Women Want Love - But They'll Settle for Money

This post is why money doesn't fix dating.

My theory of women is simple: they are effectively exactly like men. In every regard. Emotionally, mentally, spiritually, etc. etc. The only difference between women and men are our circumstances.

Let's play a hypothetical. (I'm assuming you're a guy reading this blog.) You love sex and you want a partner. Every woman you date is bigger and stronger than you. They can rape you - or kill you. And most of them have STDs, something as serious as AIDS, except before the treatment for AIDS. If you meet a man who you couldn't trust, you'll have expensive medical issues FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. You have to trust women with your safety, and health, and hopefully pleasure.

Now let's pull it back. Every woman faces these challenges. Every man she's going to date will be stronger than him. Every man has the physical strength to attack her - to rape and to kill her. Almost every woman has to trust that a man won't get her pregnant. She can get stuck with an STC (sexually transmitted child). And if he does, that man better damn well help provide for her kid, or her and her child will suffer. Usually, a woman needs to have access to abortion to protect her finances (which is tough here these days - U-S-A! U-S-A!).

Otherwise, women would gladly have sex until they meet the right man. And he'll be a great partner, especially sexually, because (anecdotally) 70% of her dates don't make her cum, lol.

Listen, Guy. You have to REALLY WANT A ROMANTIC PARTNER to put yourself in such a terrible position to date.

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Men only want one thing, and it's disgusting. They want a wonderful, sexual, close partner. Actually, women want that same thing, and yeah, it's still disgusting. (It's not disgusting for anyone, but the meme is hilarious.)

A woman needs to answer two things with a man. Do I want to see this man every day for the rest of my life? That's love. And do I trust this man with my physical safety so that I can sleep next to him at night? That's security.

This post goes directly to the men who are stuck in the incel cycle. Those are the two things women need. If you answer those questions, you will have and keep a woman.

Women want a whole slew of other things, and this changes from woman to woman, and from where she's at in life. Do I want to see this man every day? There are a ton of things that fit this category, and it could be: he's handsome (#1); he's funny; he matches or complements my energy; he motivates me; he supports me, emotionally, spiritually; he's smart and I learn from him; he's wise and I grow with him ... and so on.

The manosphere posits this: women want an alpha male with money

Not really. Women want a man who's confident. If he's an alpha male? Yeah, probably makes the bar. If he keeps telling her he's an alpha male? Eeeehhh ... not so confident.

And money. Money is financial security, and therefore physical security. If a woman can't get both things - I want to see this man every day and I trust him with my safety when I sleep - she'll settle for one half of the safety option with him. At least she won't starve.

Wouldn't you choose that, if you can get nothing else?

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This is why you can't bank on only money. Yeah, I made a pun.

If all you offer is Scrooge McDuck amounts of gold, and she doesn't want to see you every day, you're probably trying to buy her and see her every single day.

And that is as unpleasant as when an uggo girl wants your attention. Every. Single. Goddamned. Day.

And you have see her. Every. Single. Day. For her money.

If you buy a woman, and she doesn't like you, she is 85% guaranteed to cheat on you. Anecdotally, she finds more satisfaction in knowing she is cheating on you rather than with the guy she's cheating with. She wants to stuff your money up your candy ass - and wouldn't you want to stuff it up that annoying, rich uggo's ass, too?

If you manage to find your true love while having an affair, that's just a bonus.

Tldr; don't bank on money.

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Invest in love.

We're putting up another post about the #1 thing you can do to up your confidence, and your dating game, and it has nothing to do with dating.

It's fun and every man can do it. Most of you are, actually.

Stay tuned. Stay chill.

-Your wingman Trevor

Got a problem talking to women and want advice? Didn't agree with my advice here? Email me at MensDatingWorld at Gmail dot Com.